Hearing the news that, Paul Harvey, one of the most listened to radio personalities in the US and possibly the world, has passed is the subject on many people’s mind. It saddens us but at the same time it is an opportunity to celebrate the memory of his life and for me as a Midwesterner and living just south of Chicago, it strikes close to home.
As I listened to my radio today, I too, reflected on what Paul Harvey had left as his legacy. I began jotting down bullet points they mentioned about his lifestyle.
One subject was what brought him such great success through his 90 years. The power and quality of his voice was only a small portion of that success. When asked, here are some of his top replies:
1. Discipline.
2. Pacing myself
3. Prepare for the show.
4. Don’t talk too much.
5. Don’t talk too fast.
6. Listen.
Those were just a few. Other notable qualities were; choosing your words well, having time for people, making everyone you talk to special, engaging people in your conversation, and being cheerful.
As I re-read the list above and then look at the title of my blog ‘Making a Difference’ and ‘What Have I Done Today’, I realize that we all could take lessons from Paul.
I became acutely aware that success isn’t a prize that is to be won; it is something that is developed and nurtured through the choices we make.
I heard them tell how he began his day, every day.
I wilted with shame, as they spoke about the disciplines he had in his daily life, thinking how far off base I was by comparison. It was his mundane regiment of what he did before and behind the scenes - of always ‘Preparing for the show’ where he developed and nurtured that personal success. Up at 3:30 every morning, off and running shortly thereafter and in the office hours before he went on air always preparing, doing his homework etc.
Did you know that even though Paul had a gifted voice, every day he would practice his voice range with coaches? Then there was teamwork at its finest, with his loving wife, Angel and his son, Paul Jr. at his side as team players, as well as many others I can’t begin to know, all played a great part in his success.
By now, I guess you can tell my personal favorite is number three, ‘Preparing for the Show’. He always ‘dressed up’ even though no one could see him through the microphone, he still dressed up. All those things we take for granted like personal grooming that made him stand out, no matter where he was or what he was doing.
What does that have to do with anything?
As someone who works online and has aspirations of being a success, I understand why and what he did what he did. There are probably several thousand programs out there on the internet that boast how they are Seashore Millionaires, and you see the pictures of the fellow parked on some sunny beach in a recliner with his laptop computer, doing business; or the ones that tell about going to work in their pajama’s.
Well, while that sounds like berries and cream, I tried it and it just doesn’t work for me.
If you think about it if you are setting on some tropical beach somewhere, the last thing on your mind would be ‘work’. Personally, I’d be so distracted by wanting to jump in the water that I couldn’t ‘work’ or do business with any degree of interest.
I have also tried doing my ‘work from home business’, in my pajama’s; that, too, went over like a lead balloon. Even though no one could see me through the computer I felt uncomfortable unprofessional. I knew, even if they couldn’t see me, it drastically effected my presentation, my delivery on how serious I was about my business. And if you think about it, if you have just spent 8 hours in a garment you’ve slept in the first thing most would want to do is put on fresh clothing. Get prepared for the day.
In the mad dash for fame and fortune we all too often forget it’s not the quantity of what we have in our lives as much as the quality of our lives that matters in the end.
When you can look in the mirror at the end of the day and can ask and honestly answer ‘What have I done today?’ you will be way ahead of the others on developing success.
Now talking to myself once again, I have to ask, what does success mean to me? Are my choices in harmony with my dreams and aspirations?
Well, Mr. Harvey, I’ll have to re-think those things.
A heartfelt ‘Thank You - Paul Harvey’ - you will be remembered.
This is Sharon Morin,
Good Day!
“Success comes, when I allow my dreams and desires to guide my choices and thoughts”